Thoughts

Sometimes thinking about the end of something in life can feel terrifying.

It's interesting to think about how quickly we as humans can adapt to change, yet at the same time, how we develop such a great preference for familiarity.

Sometimes it may be hard to see the new beginnings beyond the ends.

But there is something very interesting I've learned about endings.

Where there is an ending, there is often a beginning of some kind.

and when I find myself at an ending point in any certain area of my life, that is what I try to find,

I hope I know a bit about the process, I've dealt with many endings and also many fresh beginnings so far throughout my life.

I remember when I first moved to Kelowna around 2013, I found it difficult to get the flow going. I expected things to come my way much faster than I felt they were coming and I was so focused on attaining my goals I forgot or perhaps I had not yet learned about the power of connection.

Over years and many different work experiences I began to learn a lot more about the power and significance of connection and also much more about ends and beginnings.

A few years later I had a summer job that began causing me stress as the months passed by. One day I felt the end come and I quit in that moment, on the spot. I remember feeling calm, and motivated to find something better suited to my needs. When I returned home I made a phone call to a contact I'd acquired a few years earlier and by the end of the day my new position ( which paid more than my last) was all set up for me.

The more I recollect on my experiences at work and in life, I realize that change really is a fairly normal and progressive process for me. The more I accept change as ongoing part of my life, the less I fear it. The less I fear change, the more open I feel to life and the world around me.

I also do a hypnosis quite often that helps me process and normalize the idea of change.

I find it soothing and peaceful.

It tells me:

" I know that the more I relax and sit in my own silence, it will be okay"

"i choose to feel peace."

"i choose to accept change."

I find myself repeating the mantras to myself throughout the day.

If you like the looks of this hypnosis, let me know and I can send you the link.